Trying too hard

I’ve spent two years trying to be a better . . . whatever. Person, friend, runner, climber, girlfriend, employee, Buddhist, contributor to the world at large. Two years later I’m no better than I ever was and I’m tired of trying. Yes, it’s good to work on yourself, but I’ve reached a breaking point. I am who I am and I’m done trying to be better than that.

So I bark orders at Todd while he’s belaying me from above on The Dangler. He was barking orders at me while I was belaying him from below. And so we both made a bloody mess of it–again–and when I complained about the people on Three Pines offering me beta, and he said he hoped I was nice to them at least, I admitted that I wasn’t. So maybe they’ll learn something about suggesting basic climbing techniques to a person on a route seven grades harder than theirs.

And no, I cannot lead 5.10 at the Gunks, not even in some half-assed way where you eventually arrive at the top by hook or crook or pulling on gear or climbing the route next to you. Not even like that. And I can’t run 100K one weekend and go for a casual three hour run the next weekend. I can’t even walk uphill carrying a pack two weeks later without passers-by worrying about my limp. I can’t even be the nice passer-by who would worry about someone else’s limp.

So I suck, but I’m going back to liking it. And I’m going back to hanging out with people who like it. And although I don’t ever expect to stop trying to get better, I’m going to stop thinking I’m not just fine the way I am.

Glypnod, 5.8 (P1: Todd, P2: Dawn)
The Dangler, 10a (Todd)
Star Action, 5.10 (Todd)
Graveyard Shift, 5.11 (TR)

Coming Home

It’s only been three weeks since I was last at the Gunks, but it feels like a whole other era. Then I was runner, squeezing in a few low-grade climbs between high-mileage runs. Today I’m a climber again: hobbled, tired, uncertain, but glad to be home.

Eyesore, 5.6 (Brien)
Trapped Like a Rat, 5.7 (Dawn)
Dennis, 5.5 (Brien)
Retribution, 5.10 (Dawn)
Nosedive, 5.10 (TR)
Jane, 5.7 (Brien)

Pineland Farms 50M 2009

After my training run last weekend I was feeling pretty chipper. I figured if I could do 40 miles in 8 hours under non-race conditions, then 50 miles in 10 hours on race day was in the bag. Despite Steve’s dire warnings that I’d trained too hard too close to race day, I plotted an even faster finish.

Of course, I was tired and, unfortunately, I was limping, but injuries are a part of the long distance running game. I often say that if you don’t run injured, you won’t ever run, which is taken from my friend Steven’s maxim that if you don’t climb in the Dacks when there’s a chance of rain, you won’t ever climb in the Dacks.

I’ve always done my longest training run a week before the race and I’ve always been dealing with injuries by that point. And a week’s rest has always been sufficient for me to feel chipper and raring-to-go at the starting line. Those first few pain-free steps after weeks of painful steps are a morale booster that starts the race off right.

So I wasn’t worried about the limp on Sunday. Or Monday. Or Tuesday, at least not much. But by Thursday it was clear that the muscle strain in my left quad wasn’t healing as quickly as I’d like. Despite rest and ice and ibuprofen, it was stubbornly getting worse, not better. Saturday I was still limping. Sunday, race day, I swallowed a few Advil upon arising at 4:30 am and put my faith in my last, best hope–that it’d stop hurting once it was warmed up.

The race is 3 loops, about 15 miles each, preceded by a short spur to bring the total mileage up to 50. The loop is shaped like an 8, or a snowman. First you run the snowman’s body (about 10 miles), then his head (about 5), crossing the start/finish area at his waist twice on each lap.

The footing is generally good for a trail race–better than what I’d trained on anyway–but my gait was off. My mind was trying to protect my left leg and my stride was uneven and choppy as a result. It was too chilly for my muscles to properly warm up and I was discouraged and hurting. I was afraid the race was going to depend on my left quadricep, but ultimately it came down to people.

One of the last pieces of advice Steve gave me was to talk to the other runners. My first attempt at striking up a conversation didn’t go so well. The guy was tired and discouraged. He’d done the 50K last year and today, only six or seven miles in, was feeling worse than he had at the same point the year before. Exactly my story, exactly my feelings. I tried to make some positive remarks about our feeling better once we got into the middle of the race and weren’t focused so clearly on how far we had to go, and then I moved on. Shared misery is little comfort.

When I crossed the starting area for the first time, I’d been running around two hours and my leg hadn’t warmed up enough to stop bothering me, but it wasn’t hurting any worse than it had at the start and things were about to get better. Steve was waiting for me with a big smile and words of encouragement. From where I saw him, I ran a short distance to my drop bag and dosed myself with another handful of Advil. I was now in the head of the snowman, which is a much more runnable part of the course.

After my first experience with trying to talk to a fellow runner, and considering that I’d done all my training runs alone, I might not have tried again, but I happened to overtake two guys running together just as they were overtaking someone else and someone else was overtaking me and a slight bottleneck in the path mashed us all into a pleasant pack.

It turned out that Lou and Hans and I had a lot in common. Lou had paced his son-in-law at the Vermont 100 the year before when I’d been there crewing for Steve, and we both worked in the legal industry. Climbing came up and it turned out Hans was a long time climber and lived in North Conway where I’d just picked up Steve the evening before. Suddenly the time and path were flying by. We might have been running too quickly, but I was enjoying myself for the first time the whole race.

When we got back to the starting area again, Lou said his goodbyes. He wasn’t really in the race, just keeping company with Hans on the first lap and planning to pace his son-in-law on the last lap. Hans stopped to call his girlfriend, so Susan and I went on alone. I realized I wasn’t hurting anymore. Whether it was the mental boost from seeing Steve, the second dose of ibuprofen, the day warming up, or having my mind distracted by the company, I can’t say. I imagine it was all of the above, but I give most of the credit to the company. I don’t think I’d have made it through the race if I hadn’t fallen in with them.

Somewhere along the second lap, Hans caught back up with me and Susan, and somewhere after that I realized our pace was slowing down more than I could afford and I left them behind. I started out wearing Steve’s GPS but I couldn’t get a satellite signal so it was nothing more than a heavy watch and I ditched it. I was running naked. My only pacing clues came from random remarks by other runners pieced together with occasional glimpses of mileage markers. Despite the lack of feedback, when I did get enough information to figure out my pace it seemed that I was dead on. So when my body started telling me that Susan and Hans were moving too slowly, I regretfully pulled ahead.

I was more than halfway through the second lap and starting to feel it. The pain relief had been short-lived. Although the injured quad was keeping quiet, general fatigue with its hundreds of minor aches had set in. I was back on the nice side of the snowman, but all I could think about was that if I were doing the 50K I’d be nearly done by now. I briefly ran with someone from the 25K race who said “We’re almost there” to which I replied “You’re almost there.” I wanted to be almost there and I strongly considered making this lap my last lap.

It was then that the long training run, however ill-advised, demonstrated its true worth. I knew I could run 40 miles because I’d just run 40 miles last week, and I hadn’t yet run 40 miles today. I couldn’t let myself off the hook without at least getting to the 40 mile marker, and, once there, it would be ridiculous not to finish, even if I had to walk the whole way.

I had a bit of luck at this point too. It started to rain. I like running in the rain and run faster when I’m cold. Steve met me just before the starting line and gave me another boost of encouragement and I crossed the line into my third lap, committed. I knew the third lap would be easier mentally if I could only get there, and it was. The rain picked up my pace. For half an hour while it rained and I had the initial high of embarking on my final lap, I fairly flew. Just as the rain stopped and the sun came out, Steve appeared on the course in front of me with an extra layer. I didn’t need it now, but I was glad to see him. I was on my last lap so I was allowed to have a pacer and I forced him to run with me for a few minutes, although he was hardly dressed for it.

My last hurdle was my last time through the fields. Much of the course is on pleasant, twisting paths through the woods, but a longish section is through hay fields that have had a swath mowed through them to run on. The grass is still deep enough to slow you down and on my last lap it was holding all the water that had just been dumped on it. I was glad to put the fields behind me for the last time, knowing that I didn’t have far to go before crossing over to the nicer side of the road.

Once on the head of the snowman for the last time I knew I’d make it. I also knew I wasn’t going to make 10 hours. I had two choices: I could give up and walk the rest of the way–after all, what was the difference?–or I could finish strong, even if I was a little off. If Steve hadn’t been waiting for me, I think I’d have walked. But I knew he’d be watching the time and rooting for me, so I tried to pick up the pace. I did pick up the pace, but it’s hard to make up time 45 miles into a 50 mile race and I didn’t pick up much. I finished in 10:05, a slow time for 50 miles but very near what I wanted to do.

As I turned onto what they call The Final Mile (blissfully much shorter than a mile), I felt tears welling up. I don’t know if I was happy or just relieved. Even now, I’m not sure how I feel. I’m proud to have done what few people will ever do. I’m pleased with the evenness of my pacing. I’m disappointed at not being a better long distance runner naturally and unsure whether I’m willing to put the time into becoming a better one through training. I’m glad to have met some interesting people, and I’m deeply grateful to Steve for all he did.

In some ways the moment of crossing the finish line is anti-climactic (despite hugs from Steve and nice finisher prizes from the race). Since I’m not good enough to compete in the races, the real point of running them is to hold a carrot in front of myself to keep the training aggressive and purposeful. I could never run 50 miles if I hadn’t trained to run 50 miles, and I’d never have trained to run 50 miles if I hadn’t been planning to run a 50 mile race. Now I’m a stronger person, and most of that strength is somewhere in my head, not in my legs at all. The race is won before the race is run.

Today I’m stiff but not as sore as you might expect. Strangely, the pain in my left thigh hasn’t come back yet. Steve assures me that I “worked it out” yesterday, but it’s hard to imagine that you can cure a running injury with a ridiculous amount of running. I have blisters, which I blame mostly on the soaking my feet got from running on wet grass, but they only hurt when you poke them and I’ve mostly refrained. I could run today, if I had to. One thing I learned during training for this race is that running doesn’t hurt much more than walking and it gets you there a lot faster. Luckily, I have nowhere to go.

Pineland Farms is a well-run race with amply stocked aid stations (even ibuprofen and sun screen) and a great finishing barbecue that includes a keg and, thoughtfully, veggie burgers, but I don’t expect to be back. Five times through those fields is enough and Memorial Day is a big weekend to sacrifice. I do see another ultra in my future, though I don’t know when and I don’t know how long. For now I’d like to get faster. You can’t run fast in an ultramarathon, but not-fast is a relative speed, and I’d like mine to be a lot faster.

To everyone who organized the race and volunteered at the aid stations, to my fellow runners who chatted with me along the way, and to my friends who thought of me on race day, thanks for making this new experience possible. And to Steve, who first formed the idea and saw it through to the end, thanks aren’t enough.

Gear and gadgets

I’m not a gear hound. My love of trad climbing has something to do with gear–the placing of it, the puzzling it out–but I don’t go nuts for the newest toy. I have a very strict policy that nothing can be added to the rack without something of similar weight being subtracted, and my rack is too perfect to tinker with.

I’ve said before that running only requires a pair of shoes and a sports bra–and I’ll live without the sports bra–but it has its trinkets. For my last and longest training run, I borrowed Steve’s GPS watch. My intention was to run by time, not by mileage, to focus on staying slow and steady and walking the hills and taking appropriate nutrition breaks, but to stay on my feet for a solid 8 hours, which is still only 80% of what I’m anticipating on race day.

And yet, I’m exceedingly anal retentive. No matter how much I wasn’t focusing on the mileage, I was going to need to know what the mileage was. That was where the GPS came in. I was able to meander around the reservoir, taking whatever trail sparked my fancy, and avoiding hills as much as possible (since they were only excuses to walk) and yet to know, at the end, how far I’d gone. Because up to that point I’d only run 28 miles and 50 is a heck of a lot more than 28.

The GPS is a blast. It’s big and bulky and my wrist, already a little sore from wearing my running watch so much lately, felt bruised after a few hours. But it’s fun. It gives you distance and elevation gain and current pace and average pace and even heart rate if you hook it up (which I didn’t).

I kept it on the average pace display and tried to peg it at 12 minute miles. Now, a 12 minute mile is slow. Very slow. A fast walker on flat ground can do 15 minute miles. But for an average, considering hills and pit stops, it was my target pace, and I figured out that if I could stick to 12 minute miles, I could do 40 miles during my 8 hour run. It’s not a good idea to do math in your head while running, as it’s rarely accurate, but in this case I was right.

I stuck to it too. Sometimes I’d get briefly ahead, and frequently I’d get despairingly behind, but as I got close to 8 hours the target of 40 miles seemed so doable that I made a deal with myself that I was running 8 hours or 40 miles, whichever came first. Which is why I came to a dead stop at 7:56.

Eventually I realized no one was going to rescue me and limped the remaining two tenths of a mile back to my car, but I was damned if I was going to run another step. Thank you GPS for saving me from those last 4 minutes.

On Sunday Steve and I went and visited Firewall and he led one of the new bolted routes and I gratefully took a toprope on it. We used the static rope he bought me for Christmas–the newest piece of gear I own. It was cool and windy and I was glad to be out and not running. I’m ready for my race now, and I think the GPS is coming with me.

The Conquest of Bunnissima

It was a low-key but pleasant day at the Gunks. Steven is leaving for Devil’s Tower at the end of the week so his main focus was on not getting hurt and I was tired from a long training run the day before. I normally climb with my feet but my legs had no oomph, as I discovered when I started Elvis-ing about 20 feet up the first pitch of the day on a 5.7. But despite a lack of any phenomenal feats of bravery, the day had many highlights.

Steven and I did a route that neither of us had ever been on before–Gaston. Three pitches new to both of us. The first pitch was runout, the second pitch was loose. The last pitch was short but nice. I did it differently than what the book said and eventually figured out it was the last pitch of Gorilla My Dreams. The best pitch of Gaston isn’t actually on Gaston.

Then we ran up Horseman and Bunny Direct, sharing a few jokes with some friends about how fierce “Bunny Direct” sounds. Clearly much more macho than Bunny. Steven took an even more direct line following me by climbing the final set of tiers on the front side straight up to the anchor, which we christened Bunnissima.

Steven wanted to do Sonja. No one in the world but Steven wants to do Sonja, but since he was leaving for Devil’s Tower and I wasn’t exactly champing at the bit to do anything else in particular, I agreed. He ran laps on it (3) and I got up it (1). Since I think this may have been the first time I ever even got to the top of Sonja, never mind cleanly, it was a minor triumph.

Gaston, 5.7+ (P1 & 3: Dawn, P2: Steven)
Horseman, 5.5 (Steven)
Bunny Direct, 5.6 (Dawn)
Sonja, 5.10 (TR)

Taking the cat for a drag

I managed to sneak in a few climbs between runs and rain drops. Steve, Dagmar, Kevin and I went to Pinnacle and I led Zamboni, which was new to me and pleasant, and then Steve and I TR’d a few of the usual suspects. The Entertainer felt easier than I remembered it, which I can only assume is because I’m getting lighter (although the scale insists otherwise). It certainly isn’t because I’m climbing all that often or all that well.

Aside from a few stolen hours at Pinnacle, the weekend was devoted to running. I was more than pleasantly surprised by my performance–I was nearly ecstatic. Not only did I finish my long run on Saturday in good shape and good spirits, but when I dragged myself out for a short follow-up run on Sunday I found myself unexpectedly fit and fleet of foot. In fact, I felt so good I considered going some extra distance but reined myself in figuring that sometimes discretion is the better part of valor.

The best part of the running weekend was my mental attitude during my long run. Two weeks ago I ran 21 miles and every step after about mile three was a battle of willpower. Last week I posted that it’s (not) all willpower, meaning that your attitude can affect the degree of willpower needed, but as I ran along on Sunday I realized how heavily that post leaned towards the willpower side. With lots of time to think, an analogy occurred to me.

In my early twenties I had a roommate with a cat. The cat had never been outdoors, though it loved to look through the window. I got the idea of taking it for a walk so it could experience the great, wide world. I bought a collar and leash and practiced walking the cat about the living room. It wouldn’t go. It would lay flat on its back and make ghastly choking sounds while I dragged it across the floor. Even outside, with so much to explore, even on concrete sidewalks, which have to hurt, no matter how quickly or slowly I moved, the cat wouldn’t walk. It would only lie down and choke. There was no way that cat was going to enjoy being outside, not if it killed it.

Two weeks ago, my brain was like that cat. I dragged it eighteen miles and it choked the whole way. Last weekend, running 28 miles, my brain was like a dog. It was going running! It was outside! This is fun! Even towards the end, even as it got hard and tedious, my mind was running along with me. So much nicer than taking the cat for a drag.

Lessons Learned

I run, I climb, I forge forward through life. You’d think we’d learn a lot by living, given that we do it for a long time (and frequently), but my thoughts seem to coalesce more clearly while I’m running or climbing. Living? Well. I haven’t got that down yet.

I’m doing a lot of running lately and have had time to coalesce a few things. The other day, after a warm but wonderful day of climbing, I realized the similarities between what I was learning about long distance running and what I’ve learned, though not as quickly or as clearly, about climbing. And what I should learn, though haven’t, about life.

It will do itself.
I’m training for a trail race, so I’m running hills. Running hills is miserable, especially when you’re at the bottom of them. My negative self-talk says, “I can’t do this.” It says that all the way up the damn hill. But I’ve come to realize that I don’t need to “do this.” All I have to do is keep putting one foot in front of the other and eventually the hill will do itself. The hill doesn’t care whether I’m running it or not. No amount of measuring or calculating or wishful negotiating will ever change the length or pitch of the hill. But if I keep putting one foot in front of the other, regardless of speed or motivation, I’ll eventually arrive at the top. Pure physics.

On Sunday, as Brien and I walked past Bonnie’s Roof on our way to the Seasons, we found it unexpectedly open. I’ve had bad days on Bonnie’s but it’s mostly OK, and a classic Brien hadn’t been on and on the short list of climbs you’re not allowed to walk past if they’re open, so I stepped up despite the glistening near the crux that signaled wet rock. I’ve been on Bonnie’s when that bit below the crux was wet before, but it turned out the dampness extended beyond where I expected and I was nervous and unhappy under the roof. Feeling pumped from the bad stance and wigged out by damp hands and damp holds, I thought “I can’t do this.” And then I remembered–I don’t have to “do this.” I only need to make the next move. And if I keep on making the next move, eventually I’ll be at the anchor. And I was.

Let it be easy
A couple weeks ago I was heading into the last half mile of a very long run, exhausted and in pain, when I realized how tight my muscles were. I was running a flat bit at that point (possibly even downhill) and yet my legs were in constant, unnecessary, isometric contraction. I relaxed as best as I could and wondered how long I’d been putting extra strain on my legs by being tense about the challenges to come. There’s not enough energy for useless motion during an ultra-race. Steve has even taught me to stop my arms from crossing my mid-section, a wavering motion that contributes nothing.

I guess I know the West Hartford reservoir pretty well now. That means I always know what hill is next, and I’ve been anticipating them. I’ve been making the easy parts harder by adding the stress of the next hard section to come. Appreciating the easiness of the ground under my feet is vital to conserving my energy and motivation for the next time it’s not easy. I guess I know the Gunks that well too.

You can credit Rock Warrior’s Way for this one–it’s certainly in there–because “Let it be easy” equally applies to climbing. Cruxes are hard, but how far before the crux do you start tensing? And how long after the crux do you maintain that extra tension? What if the easy bits encroached into the hard bits instead of the other way around?

Double Crack is a long, sustained climb. And yet everything after the first thirty feet is considerably easier than those first thirty feet. High off the ground, nearing the top, as I sweated beyond what chalk could contain and wished the gear would place itself, I reminded myself that this was easy. And fun. This is the fun and easy bit. This top half of Double Crack is what makes it worth it to develop the skills needed to lead the bottom half of Double Crack. Relax and enjoy. As tired as you may be, you’re not running uphill.

It’s (not) all willpower
I read a study online that basically said willpower is a muscle. Exercise it, it gets stronger. And it’s surprising what simple things require willpower. An example given was using the wrong hand to perform a simple task. That was of interest to me (and one of the rare times that simple “life” taught me anything). I have a minor wrist injury in my left hand from massaging. Fortunately, climbing doesn’t bother it and it doesn’t bother me while climbing. But it hurts when I scrub things–counters, dishes, etc. I’ve tried to use the other hand, but it’s hard. I’m left handed so I’m more ambidextrous than most people, and operating a sponge doesn’t require a lot of dexterity. Nevertheless, it’s hard. Try to scrub with the other hand and see how long you can stand it.

Now imagine thinking, “I want to stop. I want to stop. I want to stop,” for four hours, eight hours, eighteen hours. Most people can’t imagine running for those lengths of times, but if they do imagine it, they imagine that we don’t mind it (we, those ultra-running elite who were apparently bred from different stock). There are days when I’m not minding the first ten miles (two hours). I expect more seasoned ultra-runners can say better than that. But it’s not a long run if “I want to stop” hasn’t kicked in at least two hours before you quit, and there are days when “I want to stop” starts with nearly the first step.

But it doesn’t have to, not every day. Because you can hurt, you can know that stopping would feel better, and not dwell on it. You can enjoy the moment for what it has to offer and remember that stopping doesn’t cure all. Most importantly, you can learn that stopping can hurt worse than going, if you wish you hadn’t later. And going can feel better than stopping, when you’re so proud of yourself for it. It’s a true kind of pride, not vain, not at anyone else’s expense. Just peaceful and for you. You started something, you finished it. Ta da.

I have a feeling there’s a lot in here to learn about life in general, but for now I’m boiling it down to my mantra: “I’m lucky, I’m loved, and my life will go on.”

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Bonnie’s Roof, 5.8 (P1: Dawn, P2: Brien)
Ant’s Line, 5.9 (Dawn)
Sleepwalk, 5.7 (Brien)
Double Crack, 5.8 (Dawn)

A day at the beach

Yes, the crowds were out at the Gunks. I was feeling low key and willing to meander up easy stuff and Todd had a finger injury, so for once he wasn’t vehemently opposed to easier routes, but climbing easy was out of the question. They were stacked three parties deep on some of the classics.

It was the first fully nice weekend of Spring, always a crowded day, but we suspected there must be more to it than that. AMC New Seconds weekend or something. “It’s like the beach,” Todd kept saying as we’d come around a corner and see another sprawl of humanity: belayers, spectators, loungers, not to mention dogs, babies–never have I seen so many babies at the Gunks–and veritable picnic lunches.

I suppose this is the sort of day people mean when they complain about how crowded the Gunks are. But from now on I’m going to look at people making those complaints as part of the crowd. This was non-normal. If you thought that was a normal day at the Gunks, then you’re only showing up on the days when everyone else shows up too.

As for the climbing, it was good. Fortunately we have enough high-end moderate favorites that we can still climb “easy” even on a day this crowded. Strictly was unexpectedly open and Todd linked both pitches, something we’d never tried before but was very enjoyable and worth a repeat.

Jean, 5.9 (Todd)
Bloody Mary P1, 5.6+ (Dawn)
Size Matters, 10c (Todd)
Pink Laurel P1, 5.9 (Dawn)
Strictly from Nowhere, 5.7+ (P1 & 2: Todd)
Birdie Party P1, 5.8 (Dawn)

A good weekend

When we got together at Bacchus after, Steven said about the day Brien and I had had, “That’s not just a good day; that’s a good weekend.” But perhaps the best part of the day/weekend was a good dinner with good friends.

Maria Direct, 5.9 (Dawn)
Maria P2 (Brien)
Son of Easy O straight up, 5.8 (Dawn)
Modern Times, 5.8 (P1: Brien, P2: Dawn)
Directissima a la Todd, 5.9 (P1: Dawn, P2: Brien)

For my birthday

There’s a point during a long run–somewhere around six miles–when my mind clears. The angry din of competing stresses silences, the red haze of self-righteous indignation dissipates, and my shoulders drop in surrender to the tranquility of the moment. My vision widens beyond the terrain immediately beneath my feet. Suddenly, I’m surrounded by peace and beauty. Suddenly, all that seems inconsequential compared to all this.

People asked what I was doing for my birthday. If I was feeling flippant, I told them laundry, which is what I was doing Sunday evening. But more completely, I spent a weekend doing everything I love. On Friday my best friend Sheila went the extra mile to get us a table at PF Changs and bought me Cosmopolitans and lettuce wraps. On Saturday Miriam took me to my favorite Mexican restaurant after a lovely day of climbing moderates at the Gunks. And on Sunday I cleared my head of whatever else ailed me with a fourteen mile run in the rain, just me and a lot of peace and quiet. Interspersed were other tidings of love from other people who love me.

I’ve been trying to be a good Buddhist for a few years now and sometime I feel like I’m no farther down the path to enlightenment than when I started, but there are times–when I climb, when I run–when I am wholly in the moment, times when I have “quiet mind.” During the days when fear was overwhelming my climbing experience, I started using a mantra to quell negative self-talk: “I’m strong, I’m confident, and my gear is good.” I think a mantra gives you quiet mind, not because you believe what you’re saying necessarily, but because you lull yourself to peace through repetition.

Lately I’ve learned a new mantra for those times when self-pitying, wishing thoughts are flooding my brain and I can’t work them out by climbing or running. The new mantra is: “I’m lucky, I’m loved, and my life will go on.” Although a mantra works whether you believe in it or not, mine was easy to believe for my birthday.

All led by me:
Betty P1 & P2, 5.3
Classic & P2 of Jackie, 5.7
City Lights P1, 5.7